Surrender

I've spoken to you about the importance of commitment to your marriage. But I've realized there is a step beyond commitment: surrender.

Without commitment, there is no marriage. That's what defines marriage - the mutual commitment of a man and a woman to each other and to the marriage.

But commitment can be withdrawn. If you want to move to the ultimate level of intimacy, you must surrender. You must surrender your rights, your preferences, your desires, your comfort, your very life. Give it over completely to your spouse and to your marriage.

Are you ready to do this? If you are, you will discover a level of meshing, of unity, of joy, that cannot be attained by any other means.